If you want an indication of what sexual activity with one is like, many adult shops sell fake ones.
If pain is an issue, just order EMLA (which you can get off some bodymod sites like BMEshop.com) which is a topical anesthetic formulated to help children get over the fear of needles. It's available as a cream or a patch, and seems to be very effective, and is often used for small tattoos and skin removals.
Any questions? PM me.
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