My boyfriend thinks I'm fine but my Mom thinks I'm fat. I'm 5'3" or so, 116lbs. Sooo even when I get the positive form my boyfriend, I have to deal with the 7 year backlog and continuing dialouge of "You're fat.
Sometimes if you have a lot of negative from other people, you start believing it, you get your own negative self talk thing going on and its hard to let anyone else tell you differently.
Keep telling her what you truly think of her, eventually you'll break through (as my dear boyfriend is slowly starting to do with me).
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