Personally I don't like the super skinny look when looking at others and shy away from it for myself. I have plenty of curves. I have been heavier too. I like my curves pretty well. It's when they become little buldges over things or around my bra that I get selfconcious. I don't like when my belly flaps along with my boobs when I'm on top. So keep it down to a gentle curve and I don't really care what the guys say then.
When it comes to encouraging others that they look good to you with or without a little extra padding - that can be hard. Some people can't be motivated for themselves very well. They need some outside reasons to at least get started. Once they do get started and start to feel better about themselves then they start wanting to treat themselves better and be in better shape. As for someone wanting to be too skinny - I really don't know how to counter that. Unless they are sick from starving themselves I don't worry. If they are making themselves sick - they need help from someone better qualified than me.
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