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Originally Posted by uptown
You know what, I'm real tired and turned off by the old standard reply that blames women by labeling them as insecure when men behave like jerks.
Some guys make it really clear that they love big tits and they have subtle and some not so subtle ways of letting their small breasted g/friends know about it.In those cases it's pretty obvious that the person who isn't happy with what he has is the guy.That's why I wonder why a guy wouldn't just stay unattached till he finds somebody more to his preferences ?
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Most (young) women
are seriously insecure. If the guy didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't. Why would you get upset over your (possibly flawed) perception of someone else's enjoyment when it is completely under their control? Any guy knows what he likes a lot a better than you do, so it doesn't make very much sense for you to second-guess his decision.
Anyway, I doubt that your boyfriends all seemed perfect in every way while you were together. Why didn't you possibly wait for someone else to come along?
The real question was apparently not the one you explicitly asked. It seems more like you can't take a guy who looks at other girls unless they look like you (or maybe you don't want your boyfriend to look at anyone else at all
). Sorry, but those are unreasonable expectations. For most people, beauty comes in many different forms.