I find that taller thinner women when clothed tend to fit the mold of what I am more attracted to. When in bed though I definitely prefer a "softer" women as you put it. Curves are a wonderful thing. Women who are too thin can be bony and just not as nice to cuddle with. Not that thinner women can't have nice curves too. I'm not sure if that's the sort of input you were lookin for.
My SO is also at a perfectly healthy weight, but I think she has a similar view of her weight to your girlfriend. I think a lot of people are just naturally self conscious about that sort of thing. I imagine that you telling and showing her how much you appreciate her body is the best thing you can do. Of course you don't wanna overdo it 'cause then it won't seem genuine and she'll start reading into it.
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