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Originally Posted by mandy
my bf has been gone for the month
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and only last night i found out that he masturbated a couple of times while he was away. and i was disappointed that he did.
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No offense, but I think expecting a guy to go a whole month without sexual release of any kind is a very unrealistic expectation. It doesn't mean that he isn't excited as hell to be coming home to you, and it doesn't mean that he loves you any less or wants to have sex with you any less. It just means that he got so freakin worked up that he couldn't stand it anymore (from thinking about you, perhaps) and had to take care of himself or else wouldn't have been able to function. It sounds like you're not familiar with that feeling, but I assure you most guys are no stranger to it.
I'd like to add that perhaps the fact that he only masturbated a couple of times over the course of the whole month should indicate that he WAS really trying to restrain himself for your sake!