I know that personally sometimes I find it much more pleasant to think about someone I actually know when I am masterbating then just some porn star. There is something about it that makes it almost forbidden so it can be very arousing. That doesn't mean that he wants to be with her at all. Like I know when I was in High School I found it more pleasant to think about someone in class than to just get on the net and look at porn. Even though when I was in school with them I had no desire whatsoever to get to know them. Does that make any sense?
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