[QUOTE=SpikeQX99]A good piece of advice that I have learned over time, is that if you go looking for things *trouble, etc.* you WILL find it.. And then you will be mad that you looked for it..
tht is the best advice i have heard in a while...my ex was like this..and this is why he is my ex...he alwys constantly accusing me..tellin me i was lying when i wasnt, tellingme why i did things or that things i did were wrong or malicious when they seemed innocent to me..i got narked..we argued..i started hiding things i did from him..he told me to not do things i wanted to do..so i had to be devious.if you look for trouble..you become the cause
i wishyou luck keep let us know what happens! have yu seen her since?
Bacchanal are you rewaly that forthright that you would tell someoen to back off if they were being too invasive?just asking cos im curious?
