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thanks again all for your feedback.
some more answers to questions before i let this thread wither into oblivion. i don't have those feelings for her. she once approached me because she had feelings for me. we love each other as best friends and there were opportunities to take this further, but i opted to let it pass.
i can't stress enough that it wasn't where she was or that she'd gone. it was the lie. like i said, you know when something's not right, and when it ain't, you begin to question it.
if she can lie to me about something so miniscule, what's stopping her from lying about something on a grander scale?
i don't feel i smother her. when she usually says she has *fill in the blank* to do, i let her do it as long as she wants. however, when i become too busy with my life, work, school, home, she gets irate demanding time spent with her and calling me every hour.
i don't mean to bad mouth her. i'm hoping to better illustrate the quirky-ness of our relationship.
i'm sorry guys (and gals), i appreciate all the thoughts and comments. she never believes i smother her and apologizes that she demands too much of my time. she claims herself to be needy of affection, and only the affection from me. so i don't think i smother her.
she's realized she's lied to me and thought it to be stupid, yes i've spoken to her and seen her today to check on her health (read above, she's ill).
i value honesty and she knows this. it was a line crossed twice, that i know of. thanks for the suggestions people
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