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I have read down through the thread and I honestly think that this relationship is unhealthy. From what I am reading (and correct me if I am wrong), it sounds as if you are obsessed with this person. You talk all the time on the phone, your day is thrown off if she doesn't call you at a certain time, you are checking her car for warmth to see if she actually drove, ... I would strongly suggest taking a break from this person and figuring out why you are so obsessed. I have had best friends before and wondered what they are doing, where they are,... But your situation sounds extreme to me.
You mentioned a break-up. Do you think maybe you are using her as a rebound emotionally? You said you had feelings about her which is natural in a personal relationship (I am not going on the sexual preference limb here).
While I was reading this, I was reminded by one of my ex-boyfriends who was very possessive and obsessed. He would spy on me at work, stay at my house until 3 in the morning and want me at his house by 7 in the morning, call all the time, etc. His obsession ended him up in the hospital because he was so sure that I was cheating on him and lying that he got in a rage and wrecked his car. He was in a coma for about a month. During his hospital stay, I realized that the relationship was unhealthy and ended it. Yeah, I was a bitch breaking up with a person in a coma, but you have to look out for yourself and your needs.
I think that you need to analyze why you are so concerned over a drive home from work. What is her motive for lying about it?
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