the fact that nobody sees what you are trying to ask, is because you actually raise a number of other points in your post so clearly that one can't help but wonder why you would react in this way.
As far as I'm concerned: If my best friend lied to me, I'd let it go pretty much, because if you're really best friends, he/she is either really uncomfortable enough to not want to talk about it to you, or will fess up afterwards. I don't need to know every single little detail about their day, I just don't mind. There are still some things every person likes to keep private.
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her refusal to talk to me, as she normally does, on the drive home was the first red flag.
i pressed and pressed. i checked her car for warmth on the hood. i asked her if someone drove her home or if she drove herself. i found myself having to fight her use of technicality to find the truth.
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see, to me, and alot of other people, this is far too much. This is something a jealous boyfriend would do for a single "red flag" that is being raised.