How long is it until your B-day. You're right to not believe that she couldn't call because she was making B-day plans. UNLESS you're B-day is tomarrow the urgent need to make plans isn't so great that you can't respond to your best friend on your cell.
I hope this doesn't sound crazy but it went through my head and I gotta mention it because I don't know all the possibilities with this situation. - Does she realize that your friendship is just that and NOTHING more or did she once have more feelings for you that you aren't aware of? Could she be having a relationship with a guy that's on the dating side of things and is uncomfortable with you knowing?? I'm just tossing the possibility out there.
I'd wait until your B-day passed. Unless she's planned something HUGE then her excuse falls apart and you can confront her once again with it. Or you can ignore it and let the friendship slip away. Either way I would find anything else she says or does suspect.
It's sad when someone isn't trustworthy for any reason.
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