This is basically asking for advice.
The situation in a nutshell.
I see this girl and I'm very interested. My heart skips a beat when she walks by me. She engages in conversation with me for no reason.
I tell my boss about this girl who works in the same company; but different branch. ( thus ok to date )
Boss tells their boss about how I feel. Their boss is shocked that I'm interested in the girl and tells me boss, that "she likes him too, she thinks he's very funny".
I take this a mixed bag; because even if a girl finds you funny, doesn't mean she likes you, the way you want her to.
I'll be honest with all of you. I haven't been since 1999. When my fiance was taken away from me in a automobile accident. I haven't really dated since, even though I have had non-sexual relationships with girls that were interested in me... even though I didn't get any kind of "vibe" from them.
I take a chance today and ask a co-worker of hers if there's a guy in the picture. The answer was "no, she's very single".
My friends offline think it's great that I'm interested in this girl, but there was only one thing holding me back. I didn't know her age.
I found out today...
She is 20 years old.
I'm 36. ( but look much younger, act much younger, and feel much younger )
My beating heart suddenly started to slow. I'm very interested in this girl; but morally my mind is telling me how wrong it would be to date her. It's not that I would have a problem with it; but fear how others would look at the situation.
I need advice, please help me.