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Originally Posted by medici
Hey kramus,
I'm in the same place - but, I figure that if the only difference between separated and divorced is paperwork, then they are pretty much the same. Wouldn't you agree?
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I would like to agree except for the fact that the ex and I are still tightly bound by assorted mutual responsibilities that go beyond the kid thing (mortgage, loans - money stuff like that). And that means I am not yet in a place where I can only worry about my end. Which leads to me not feeling secure yet about little things like going out on a Friday - because I have no discretionary income until we get the house sold and the finances reworked. Give me 2 months and I may have a finalized divorce and a set of resolved financial issues
