Pacifier

Thank you for trying to clarify what I was goning to sad but you were wrong. So I would be very pleased if you stop reading things in my posts that I didn't said.
At no point I said "it is americas fault", at no point i said "hug the enemy"

boatin listed perfectly what I meant, an additional important point would be:

Understanding what moviates someone to become one of them*

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"It seems to me that the idea of a personal God is an anthropological concept which I cannot take seriously. I also cannot imagine some will or goal outside the human sphere. Science has been charged with undermining morality, but the charge is unjust. A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties and needs; no religious basis is necessary. Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death
— Albert Einstein