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Originally Posted by Neogigas667
Ok on the 4th, Me and my girlfriend decided (well actually she decided) to take a break from things (but still remain friends) and see other people  (I had told myself that I was going to wait for her, and not go looking) because she feels things are progressing too far towards marriage for our age... and she doesn't want to get married yet... Ok, so I go along with it thinking it is just one of her fits she has (she is Bipolar so it happens a lot). Ok, and I called her house to ask her to go out this weekend to help me pick out some new clothes, and I come to find out from her roommate she already has a date planned with another guy (She was working ATM and didn't tell me)...
So I was wondering, how long should I keep my hopes up that things will work out and she will come back? And If I should confront her abut the date, not angrily but just kinda protective like (You know the whole is he good enough for you thing), or should I try to coax her into telling me?
Any help would be much appreciated, I am open to feedback, please help me out... |
Dude...break out. That's your option.
I'd be willing to bet on her being dihonest twice in this story:
1) She already had been talking to this dude when she told you she "needed a break." She flat out lied to you about this. She didn't need a break....she needed to hook up with the new guy.
2) Her friend said she was "working" and you just didn't know about it. Please, this is one girlfriend covering for another. She wasn't working, she just didn't want to talk to you. Of course she'll deny this but she'll only be lying again.
Time to leave bro. It will not be worth it for you to try and keep her. Don't pay this emotional price as she'll only lose respect for and you will lose your own pride.
Walk away clean. Tell her it's over. If she loves you, she'll be begging you not to walk out.
Or, you can do it the hard way. Good luck.