Think of it this way: Because of your willingness to evaluate the situation, you are better prepared to act on 100 other future opportunities. Bingo! The world is a better place already!
Regardless of how it may be perceived, that is not on you (as long as you attempt to be sensitive, and from your postings, it doesn't sound like that'd be a problem).
"In accepting the gift, you honor the giver."
"Stranger in a Strange Land"
I think that's the best line Heinlin (sp?) ever wrote.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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