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Um...not to be an asshole or anything but do you know for sure he's gay? Alot of people acts/behaves in a werid way and the whole wink part might have just heighted the whole situation to the point where you *think* he's gay.

Personally, I think you're just overreacting and might have a problem toward homosexual men. The reason I think you might have a problem is first off your "eww" comment when he winked at you. Lots of guys wink at each other for various reason, even my boss at Fedex does so. Second off, lots of people always say "Oh, I have no problem toward X people and so and so" where X is any typical group such as homosexual men when it turns out that they're really hiding the truth that they do have a problem toward them.

I have a stepbrother who behaves strangly compared to other guys I know but I have gone as far as calling him gay b/c of his behavior.

Edit: Some of the people here are encouraging you to go up to him and say "Thanks, but I'm not gay" if he continues to wink. I should point out that some workplace harassment policy includes forbiding stereotype situations such as callinig other co-worker gay. Again, you don't really know for sure that he's gay do you?

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