wow, i totally believe in predestination...and have given this issue much thought.
for someone who worries a lot about everything (like myself), believing in predestination is probably the best remedy around.
just yesterday my (very outgoing) partner decided she wanted to go skydiving. i used to worry my ass off every time she would even go out with friends or get into someone elses car. now, i'm very at peace with these types of things.
anything can happen. anywhere and for any reason. with that said, if one choses to worry about someone skydiving then they should also be equally worried about crossing the street the traffic. it's only makes sense.
i can fly in planes again, i am comfortable with any crazy things my partner wants to do, i can even.......walk into a dark forest with a flashlight (for lack of a better example).
i am a firm believer in predestination...and it gave me a whole different outlook on life.
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