depends on a lot of factors--my mood, the position, the intensity, the situation, etc. and sex is different than masturbation for me.
sometimes i get lots of little ones that are perfectly satisfying--other times it is lots of little ones that leave me aching for the big one (where it isn't just wanting to get off--but needing it). then there are big ones too, but even then, the sensation is different. sometimes it's implosive where i just want to draw everything in, other times it's explosive and i loose all sense of myself.
i think a lot of it is in the head though. i know the closer and more loving i'm feeling to my partner, the more intense and implosive the orgasms. a quickie is more likely to result in a big orgasm with small waves after. rougher sex gives intense orgasms that are very explosive but typically leave me feeling super cuddly and loving after.
lots of variation for me lol
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