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Originally Posted by j8ear
It sounds like this might need to be revisited.
Priorities, you know. Friends don't do what you described.
I feel you Doc...I really do, my wife and I have really learned alot about what real "friends" really are all about, after our daughter and my cancer.
It was as if a premature baby, and thyroid cancer are contagious?
If you feel you are making plans that will not likely happen, then hey...you should probably consider that fact, make your 'commitments' accordingly (i.e. non-commital) and remain open to other gatherings.
It could be the wives (if i'm not being presumptous about the 'we' situation you included yourself in) lacking compatibility too...I know that has been an issue with some of my aquaintances. Either way, honesty is what friendships are all about, and that's why I opened with my first thought.
-bear
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Heh, no the wives are VERY compatable. We see each other a lot, which is the problem I think, we are always around so we are more of a backup. I don't mind being the backup in this case, but I do mind not knowing. The issue is how the husband fills their social calander. Heaven forbid they are home alone on a Saturday night.