Originally Posted by Cynthetiq

oh then that's even more assholish that I anticipated. Not only does it make you look like he's waiting on better prospects to hang out with you, but to have initiated it makes it even more upsetting.

After having blown up a "best friend" last year about this very same subject. I am going to say, be the better man, and demure from confrontation, because now I wish I had.

Had I done that, then I'm not the one that dropped the gauntlet to challenge him. It makes it all on him had I just let him enough rope to hang himself.