Personally, i'm facinated by your situation, i think it happens more often than people think, oh the games that men and women play . . .
It seems human nature is to often 'do something to get something.'
So do we have an update match000 ?
Did you lay the cards out and ask the girl you are actually interested in to do something just the two of you?
inquiring minds wish to know
hehe
Sweetpea