I have an idea, how bout ya'll get past the term FUGLY, and on to something a bit more helpful?
45 posts about how a word is oh so damned bad is hardly any worse than calling someone fugly.
My advice, since yer just in it for the fuck anyway, is to just lay it all down, man up, go for broke, whatever you wanna call it. Try to get the girl you like alone somehow, and just say "Hey you wanna do something later? Like, just the two of us?"
It's not that hard to figure out if a girl is interested or not.
By the way, the people saying that he's a player, and that he might be getting played.
1) He is surely no player.
2) A player does not get played