|
^no reason to feel dirty -- fantasies are just that, fantasies! I'm sure if something like that happened in reality (without it being planed out by you and your lover) you would feel differently.
As for me -- just six weeks after 100% natural birth and HUGE baby so lots of scar tissue -- my fantasy is to want sex again. Once I get the desire back, I'm looking forward to exploring my limits with the best lover ever.
__________________
If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
|