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Originally Posted by Minx
As far as the "friends with benefits".....I wouldn't do that if I were you. It would be a one-sided relationship with you still caring and him just reaping the benefits. Don't even try to be "friends" with him until you are over the breakup completely, you'll only be more hurt in the long run if you try this tactic. Again....speaking from experience here.
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I can't even
begin to describe, to you, the value of the statement that Minx has made above. I could've, and should've written it, verbatum,... myself.
Whereas
you will be "making love"...
he will just be "gettin' some". That ain't a fair trade. Now, don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with a "friends with benefits" situation. I've been in a few myself.
But...we were
both just "gettin' some".
As far as the pain that you're feeling right now? I know that it doesn't help...but, trust me...it
will get better. Right now, I imagine that you feel as if he has just torn your heart out, taken a bite out of it, thrown it on the ground and stomped on it...right? Yup...thought so. Trust me...even that pain...will heal. Time. Time is the
only cure for a broken heart. Life kinda sucks that way...don't it? But, know this...we're here for you.