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Originally Posted by Sugar&Spice
How do you stop loving someone?
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You don't/can't. Just as you cannot force yourself to fall in love with someone, neither can you just hit a switch and turn it off even if you want to. Trust me, I know this to be a fact. Unfortunately time is your only healing power. It appears that you are already doing one thing that will help, which is to get out and do things and try to meet new people. It will hurt for a long time I'm sorry to say but eventually you will neet someone who can make you smile again.
As far as the "friends with benefits".....I wouldn't do that if I were you. It would be a one-sided relationship with you still caring and him just reaping the benefits. Don't even try to be "friends" with him until you are over the breakup completely, you'll only be more hurt in the long run if you try this tactic. Again....speaking from experience here.