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Originally Posted by shakran
Yes, you did mean to sound like a jerk. Referring to a woman as fugly IS being a complete jerk. Your sentence structure is good enough that I can safely assume you're not mentally deficient, which leaves us only with the conclusion that you were being a jerk, you knew you were being a jerk, and now that you're being called on it, you think "but I didn't MEAN to" will fool all of us.
Saying she's "cockblocking" shows us you're out for cheap sex without considering what your partner wants, and that's it. If that's all you want, find a hooker or a jar of vaseline. As much as you may think they are, women are not the brainless sex objects portrayed in those videos you keep hiding from your parents.
Best move in this case? You've been a total asshole to these women. Apologize, then leave them alone so they can find someone who deserves them, and work on a little maturity before you go chase again.
Am I coming down pretty hard? Yeah I am, but people around here know me as someone who doesn't mince words when people are screwing up. You treated those women like crap, and no one deserves that.
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Hi everyone,
I appreciate all your time to respond. I look upon your comments as a hopeful opportunity to improve myself, and I appreciate everyone's viewpoints.
Yes, I was being a jerk, and I don't deny it. However, I was not *trying* to be a jerk on purpose, as you say. Can you look at it from the other viewpoint? I am trying to get to know a certain one or two cute girls I like. Instead, I have been whipped and controlled by the girl I'm not interestd in to basically be her "American lovery boy" for the next 10 days... without *my* consent. I do realize, however, that my being nice to her may have slightly led her on, but in no way did I overtly show romantic interest in her.
Besides, at the time of posting, I could have easily gone back and changed the entire post and removed "fugly". Why didn't I? Ummm, I guess I just wanted to be straight up, no bullshit.
Oh yeah, and I have *not* been an asshole to these women. As much as I *do* sound like an asshole, I have planned fun stuff for them to do, taken them various places, and in fact have been a cheap, free tour guide if not anything else. If anything, I should be feeling very very used right now or after a week lol.
Also, I didn't mention that I *did* have my buddy wingman there at all times, but he was zeroed in by *another* cute girl of the group (not the ones I like). So he was held hostage too, but with a cute one.
Again, I appreciate the responses. I am a little short of time right now, but will try to respond to more when I get back later.