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Originally Posted by maleficent
Ok, I'm riled up now... 
While I appreciate your honesty... Do you think it's right to refer to another human being as fugly? Are you so perfect looking that you can sit in judgement on someone else?
Visual impairments? Does that mean glasses? Women who wear glasses can't possibly be attractive?
Just because all of your buddies agree that a person is not up to your standards does not give you the right to insult them - even if it is behind their back. |
Well, I certianly did not intend to rile you up. Visual imparments does not mean glasses... it means we don't discriminate because of stupid things like a big nose, or a mole or some crap like that... and no... I'm not all that great looking, and I know it... it's meant in fun, and it just means that its a girl that would not activly persue.. less we get to know them through a group and and forced to interact and to see beyond visual appearance. Your looks are your first impressions... the only way around that is by talking online before you meet... I'll be the first to admit, I have dated a few girls that I have met online, that had I met them at a bar or something, I would have probably not gone up to them myself. Even my current SO, while I would not have called her fugly, the picture she posted of herself was horrible... and I was not at first interested, but this did not stop me from talking with her.. and over a year later we are still together....... When I did meet her in person, she looked incredible.. but the visual I had was nowhere near that.. I was going mostly on the "real her" that I discoverd while talking. Again, did not intend to rile you up, and again, i'm the first to admit that "fugly" girls can be awsome people, but if you don't know somebody.....looks are the first thing you see... Now if people went around with signs on them stating their personalities and intrests we might be able to fight being discriminated against via first visual impression.
You might ask... if a "fugly" girl came up to me in a bar and started talking would I talk??? Absolutly... I'll give her a chance... But would you go up to a guy you did'nt find attractive??? I doubt it... I'm even willing to bet that most women, having an unattractive or "fugly" guy come up to them would totally blow them off........ ugly, as well as fucking ugly is an OPINION, we are all intitled to them, and we all have different tastes and preferences... what might be fugly to me might be smokin hot to you... Nothing personal....