hmmm this thread is devolving almost as quickly as "bros vs. hoes"
For the sake of continuing the discussion, I'll use unattractive instead of fugly.
As a youth I would go out with my group of friends and since I was not as aggressive as my friends, I'd always wind up with the one that was unattractive to me. It didn't mean I didn't want to talk to her, just didn't want to persue a relationship with her in any capacity that involved sex or love.
I was always hard pressed to feel like I needed to have some sort of crutch, even up into my dating 20s where I wore a simple wedding ring to give myself and out. At first it was a gift from grandma that I picked out myself, it looked just enough like one but not one. When I got older I made friends with a woman who got divorced and was tossing her ring out so I took that and it became a "friend's memory" once she died a year or two later.
But I always had it as a crutch to easily excuse and demure myself out of uncomfortable situations where I wasn't interested in the girl.
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