mal, I prefer to think of it this way - everyone has a type and some girls just aren't mine. What I don't consider attractive, some people might think is very attractive. There's no such thing as a 'fugly' girl outside of an individual's perception and the sooner a person realizes that the better off they'll be.
I attribute a great deal of my past and present success with women to the level of respect I show the fairer sex. Mind, I go to the point of being anachronistic (I've been known to open the car door for a girl if she'll let me and if a girl is cold she gets my jacket regardless of whether I'm interested or not) but a certain minimum level is required in my experience.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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