I remember my first time being somewhat painful and had to be taken very slowly. What worked for me was being on top andin control of the pain. We used lubrication and a condom which also helped (except like Shani I had a reaction to that brand and was scared to death when I went in for my first depo shot and was told I had an infection...long story!!).
Everything else here is also very good stuff. Taking your time and really being ready is always helpful. My other thing I was greatful for was 'knowing' my own body and really taking the time to know what I liked.
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