One thing I never noticed being brought up is this - The mother claimed that the father was mentally disturbed and depressed and that he needed help. Why was she allowing him access to the child. I know women who are in abusive situations tend to stay in hopes of helping the man. This is just one more example of why a woman should not stick around when a man is acting like this. NO I don't believe there were no indicators prior to this of controlling, or violent behavior. Most people don't go from decent, everyday working man, to violent, insane danger to society and their own children.
Now - I do not intend to blame the mother. I'm sure these kind of thoughts are going through her head as well. I won't blame the police for attempting to stop this man in the way that they did. It is sad in every way. I place the major portion of blame on the father. I am not sad that this danger to family and society is gone from our world.
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My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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