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My way of looking at it is that while it's not for everyone, it can work if you want to put the time and effort into it. The only thing to remember is that everyone needs to know exactly what this is going in and be okay with it. The fact that you seem a bit weirded out by the whole thing may indicate that you need more time to consider it before you're ready or that it may not be right for you at all. Don't do this to make her happy or try to fulfill the typical male image, do it because you think it's right and want to do it.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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