I was told that I wasnt agressive enough, and Im fairly certain that I've remedied that.
I think you know what you need to do, but its more a matter of just doing it thats the hard part.
here are some things that I would reccomend, but I am certainly no expert on these matters.
say you're with her (and wanting some), make the proper motion to give her a kiss, but fairly quickly make the kiss more passionate, and perhaps press her against a wall or something (not abusively or anything). if no wall is present, grab her backside and pull it against you.
basically, my tactic is to take seemingly innocent first steps and to make them more than that.
another very simple thing may be just talking dirty a little to her, telling her what you want(whisper in ear, etc)
or move her into the positions you want during sex, etc
try and be as smooth as possible about these things, as they're more effective that way.
I apologize if this isnt the advice you were looking for, but its what i've got. and remember to maintain sexiness when being agressive, otherwise she might get creeped out.
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