Innovis: It's very healthy that you don't confuse these firsts with an irreplaceability, and that you can realize your ex's faults... Sometimes people get what I (crudely!) refer to as "first dick/first pussy syndrome," where they place more import on relationships that include firsts simply because they include firsts, totally whitewashing the bad parts of the relationship/partner.
reiii: I wish you the best, but it might be best if you braced yourself for the end of the relationship. Enjoy your summer, make the most our of this time alone.
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