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Originally Posted by dlishsguy
all the good ones with the good qualities get gobbled up early.
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Exactly. Because the gals you're interested in probably have the qualities that most men are interested in, those back home have already pursued them, or married them.
Here's what I learned after high school, and wish I'd known it then: I started dating those that were interested in me. Very few would have made the cover of VOGUE, but I wasn't a candidate for GQ, either. After dating about 3 dozen young ladies, I was quite comfortable in the dating game, and got where I could spot potential future dates in casual conversations. It led me to where I could ask out my now-wife (of 24 years) with ease.
Bottomline: You have narrowed your field to those that you are interested in; when you do that, you have thinned the herd to a point where you seem to be starving.