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Originally Posted by Fett56
And again she has somehow kept me with her... to me it seems as simple as she loves him and I should back out, but she tells me she still wants to be with me, not him, even though she still tells him she loves him.
It is just so easy to ignore it, because when I am with her none of this comes up and everything is great... so I know if I go to sleep and forget about it she will still kiss me tomorrow, so what good would ending it do?
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It might not seem like it right away, but you'd probably feel a lot better about yourself if you did end it.
It's all about self respect, Fett. If you're perfectly content to be manipulated and walked on for a good time and the promises of physical contact, well, then who am I to argue? I can't
make you respect yourself anymore than I can
make the rain clouds come.
It's up to you. Like scout said, if sloppy seconds is your thing, stay with her. If being manipulated like a cheap puppet is desirable, stick around. But, if you want the possibility of something better, walk away.
People can only treat you like a doormat if you let them walk around on you.