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Old 06-28-2005, 11:38 PM   #34 (permalink)
noodles
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in my past experiences, a "break" is equivalent to "breaking up". she'll ignore you, go out with the girls, see other guys (or girls? maybe thats what she means by "not attracted to other guys"), et al.

you should do the same. try and take things as softly as you can. go on with your life. don't be clingy or whiney or vindictive. take this as you two breaking up and do your damned best to take it well. if you eventually find a nice girl that you click with, maybe strike something up, but don't go actively searching. this is one of few opportunities for personal growth. don't squander on it being a jealous ex (or whatever you want to call yourself while you two are on a "break").

if you both want to get back together if and when she wants to, have at it. but until that moment arrives, you can not know when it will happen. will it happen in a month? maybe 6 months? maybe several years from now? maybe never. there's no point in clinging onto false hope, anticipating something that may never happen. and that way, it'll be a potentially pleasant suprise whenever it happens.
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