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I have the exact same problem. It's not that I only know females who have S/Os or spouses, it's just that i'm only interested in the ones that do. My friend claims that it's just because "I want what I can't have," but I think it's more than that. Every one of these girls has similar qualities that I find very attractive.
I would suggest NOT telling these girls how you feel. I mean, put yourself in the other person's shoes. If some guy told your girlfriend that he liked her, how would you feel? This has already happened to me, by some guy that was supposed to be my friend. And I can tell you, that it feels absolutely awful. Not just that, but you mentioned that you're friends with these girls. Once you tell them how you really feel, you are potentially burning a bridge. A lot of the time, you will no longer be as close as you were before.
Give it some time, I had a crush on a girl for over 4 years. I could've swore that I was in love. Took me those 4 years to realize that I DID love her as I would my sister, but not as a lover.
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