I am in serious need of advice!
I'm not a parent, but I guess I'm about to be! I started dating this girl about four months ago. I wore condoms, but somewhere one must have failed. She got pregnant. About a month after conception, she miscarried. So I was sad but relieved, I'm only 18 shes only 17 and when I found out she was pregnant we'd already broken up. Well about a week ago she went and seen a doctor for stomach pains. The doctor told her she did miscarry, but only miscarried one of the twins I made! I'm a little sketchy on this part, cause I didn't think ithis type of thing was possible. I have no reason not to believe her though. The main thing I would like advice on is the fact she now lives in Loveland, Colorado, and I live in Bountiful, Utah. I don't want my child to not know me. I don't want it to be one of those kids that's like,"Fuck my dad, I never knew the guy!" How am I supposed to have a decent relationship with my child being so far away?! Is it possible? Can it work? Has it worked for any of you?
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