I think a lot of guys have, judging from this. I have. Sometimes it's just not goint to happen on your end of it for whatever reason (stress, it being the sixth time, overindulgence) and you'd rather leave her thinking she's done a good job. Which, in my case she always has.
It's easier for guys to come and because we generally can only manage it once per session it tends to be the benchmark for sex. But easier doesn't mean it's guaranteed and we're susceptible to a lot of the same inhibitions that keep women from coming. Flip it around; if your man was going all out and you just couldn't get there, would you rather tell him that he's not doing it for you and possibly hurt his ego or just pretend and have everyone leave happy?
I don't anymore, mind.. for one, there's no need and we have too much trust for me to lie to her, even in that small capacity.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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