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Old 06-24-2005, 04:18 PM   #35 (permalink)
Elphaba
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Originally Posted by Ustwo
If for an equal amount not having children is also the right choise I guess that means I better have 4 kids to keep the population up

I think the decision for most heterosexual couples not having children is often based on fear. Having a child is scary on many levels, and society has placed ones personal status as the highest plane. Being a good mother isn't 'good enough' for women these days.

I think in the long run they will regret it as age catches up, past dreams have either been realized or failed, and its too late.
I can speak only for myself, but I have never regretted not having a child. For a number of reasons, it was the "better" choice when I had my tubes tied in my mid-twenties. My life partner of 30 years feels the same and there was not a bit of "fear" involved for either one of us.

The global "good enough" comment is merely absurd.
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