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Originally Posted by Jesus Pimp
What if they're blackmailed and have no other choice? Is it still the guy's fault? Let's say if the guy steps one step out the door to hang out with his buddies, his wife threatens to leave and take all his money and their kids? If you bail out on your friend because of that you don't have much backbone yourself.
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Perhaps his friends are completely fucking worthless individuals who will only bring him down, i.e. he is in recovery and they're your average insecure alcoholics. Perhaps he really doesn't care that much for you, and is pawning off his unreceptiveness on his wife. Perhaps you just cling to this junior high notion of "brodom" which hinders your ability to see the world that exists beyond the oversimplified "friends vs girlfriends" paradigm.