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Originally Posted by clavus
Clavus' method for imparting difficult truths to children -
Start by telling the truth in a vague or general manner. Allow the kid to ask questions. They will generally ask for more clarity, more specifics. Answer the questions truthfully. Answer specifically what is asked, not what you think is being asked. (listen, goddammit) Allow the kid to get to get as much information as he/she is comfortable with.
If your kids are like mine, expect follow-up questions days or weeks later. Answer them.
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Good advice. We are still on the basics. He'll say "Bobby's house broke" in a sad voice. I'll say "yes, but they are OK. They'll get a new house." He'll say "Get new one!" happily. At this point, that seems to be all he needs/wants to hear.