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Old 06-21-2005, 01:59 PM   #39 (permalink)
TM875
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Originally Posted by filtherton
So i'm relatively certain from your post that if i called your mother a whore-ass cunt to her face and she got offended, it would be due to her thin skin? I'm not actually doing so, i'm just wondering where you draw the line.
My mother would probably shoot back at you with something far wittier.

I believe that labels, regardless of what they are, are pointless and a person has no need to get upset by them. There is nothing that you could call me (in the lingustic sense of the word) that would upset me. The intent that you have behind it, though, is different.

For example, in college if my buddy wanted to spend the night with some woman in our room, and I needed to wake up early the next day, a comment of "bros before hos, dude" would make him think twice and change his actions in order to support his friend (who has known him, and been there for him, far longer than this random chick that he picked up). However, used in the context of, oh I don't know, maybe referring to his wife , then it would be different and possibly offensive.

Regardless, words are not offensive. They are l-e-t-t-e-r-s that are placed together to represent a physical thing or idea. Anyone who is offended by any word, on the basis of what the letters spell alone, needs thicker skin.

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Originally Posted by rune
the usage of the term "hos" and the reasoning behind it is specific.

"bros before hos" is generally used in a negative manner anyway (got my heartbroke, friend ditched us for girlfriend etc etc)
so, it's not "friends are put before good, logical girls"
but rather "friends are put before hurtful, lying, etc etc etc"
That's exactly how everyone I know uses it.

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Originally Posted by skinnymofo
considering it was coined by males, i would have to agree with you. Although its just a phrase teenaged-college guys use when guys instead of hanging out with them, go and only hang out with their girlfriends for sex. Now, you can say you dont keep your guy away from his friends, but its the guys choice to go after what he wants from the female than with the boys. This is whats assumed and i use that word on purpose. Just lighten up people, it relates entirely to the phrase "pussy whipped" and if your offended by that phrase as well.. well then im sorry.
Amen, brother.
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