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She thinks not having the option to get with other guys
would make her resentful when shes studying abroad
at the end of the summer
She got extremely uncomfortable when i suggested we
make a no sex with other people rule
She would hate the girl, but not me if I got with someone
else.
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Shes looking for something 'better' or 'different'. Treat it as a break up, actively try to find a new girl friend. Maybe she will realize she wants to be with you, maybe she won't, but don't 'wait' for her. It will most likely break your heart and if in the end you get together again you won't feel wronged because she was out maybe banging away while you were being faithful and waiting.
The fact she doesn't want to rule out sex with other people seals it.
I personally think this taking a break thing is crap and an excuse for 99% of the women who seem to need to take this break. What they are really saying is they want to explore their options, and see if you are worth it, and instead of breaking up which would be the honest thing to do they string you along just incase it turns out you ARE the best option. If I sound bitter I'm not, this never happened to me but I saw it happen to MANY people.
Hell if you treat it like its over, thats the BEST way to get her to come back. A little competition, and self confidence does a lot to impress.