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Allow the break, because if you dont' you'll ruin the relationship for sure. While on break however do not sit on your laurels. Do not just assume that shes doing nothing so you should be doing nothing. She is using this time to find her self more and to explore other options no matter what she tells you. You should do the same. Do not sit and pine for her, go out have a good time and meet some women. I am not saying go out and start a string of one night stands, or even look for another girlfriend but put yourself on the market. Go out and flirt, get back in the 'game.' Enjoy the hell out of yourself because she will be doing the same.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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