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I would allow the break, and use the time to grow yourself as well. If indeed , as time passes you both find each other again, excellent. But understand going in that this may not come to pass and expect the pain of loss. In this way should the relationship become stronger, as is quite possible, you will be pleasantly suprised. Be honest in the communications between you during this time, simply because these back and forth exchanges will be what defines for you both what the relationship evolves into.
From what you wrote above.....I dont see you have much choice in this matter, so fighting it would be counter-productive, and likely lead to a complete failure of the relationship.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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