I'd have to go with the "let her go" thing.
It'd be insane hubris for any of us to think that there is only one perfect match, and that if there is, you find her by moving in next door.
If she goes away and meets other guys, so what? Maybe she'll realise that you were great and want to come home.
Maybe she'll learn the ping-pong ball trick.
maybe you'll meet a supermodel and fall totally in love.
we cannot know the future, we can only strive to shape it with dignity and compassion.
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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